this is a twofer

Hi Goners!

Alright...I admit i know VERY LITTLE about home theatre...

Would like two servings of help please...
#1 Barring rear projection and 3d what HDTV between 46 and 54" for the bedroom and living room?

#2 Given a 20K to 25K budget [including tv's!] and wanting either a 5.1 or 3.1 system for both with dvd player,amp, wires and "all in one"remote plus set-up what would you shoot for?

I want to simply watvh movies, cable tv with hd and finally concert dvd's, that's it!

Thanks to all who take the time to help me!

Jake