Snilf, you are not deluded, and your friend (and anyone else lauding coupling) is misunderstanding the big picture. Yes in theory, in the perfect world of imagination (utopia, literally “nowhere”) then being fixed and unmoving is the way to go.
Only problem, we live in the real world. In the real world when the speaker cone moves one way the speaker cabinet moves the other. The result is not what the couplers would have you believe, robbing the music of dynamics and detail. The mass of the cabinet is so much greater than the moving mass of the cone and coil this might as well be zero.
What happens instead is the vibrations from the driver propagate out from the baffle, around the sides and back, down into the floor. Vibrations never just flow like water in one direction. Agitate some water and see. Waves travel out until they hit something and reflect back. If this was just the speaker floating in space that would be the end of the story. Very quickly the cabinet (which is specifically designed to dissipate and end vibrations) would stop vibrating.
But the speaker is on the floor and so sets the floor to vibrating. Unlike the speakers the floor is not designed to be nonresonant. So now the floor is vibrating. The speaker is on the floor. Speaker and floor are a resonant system. Floor is connected to walls, walls to ceiling. In no time flat everything in the room is vibrating. All because you played some music.
That’s with speaker coupled to floor. Speaker isolated from floor, now stops much faster. Where coupling obscures detail by getting lost in endless resonance, isolation reveals detail by reducing ringing.
What you are hearing is with only a very limited and skewed form of isolation. Springs are much better. You can buy ordinary ones on Amazon for peanuts. But springs need to be tuned to the mass of the component to work well. This is a pita to find. So a better budget solution is Nobsound springs as then you adjust for load by changing the number of springs.
This still leaves us with the problem of resonance. We have eliminated a lot but there’s still some because the springs aren’t damped. But too much damping and the spring reverts to something closer to sorbothane, which we don’t want.
The optimal damping factor, at least according to Townshend, is only about 1%. This seemingly minuscule damping factor seems to be the main thing that accounts for the profound improvement of Pods and Podiums over Nobsound.
That’s the theory. I never trust theory that much. So I tried all this stuff. All sorts of cones and spikes. Sorbothane. Ordinary springs, Nobsound, and finally Townshend. It’s not even close.
But just in case you trust neither my theory nor my ears (which I always say do NOT! DYODD) then you can always check out the yt video where Max Townshend shows a seismic iPad that demonstrates visually and clearly exactly what I am talking about.