What is proper ratio of money spent on amp/preamp/integrated vs speakers? 1:1?


Lately I'm finding more of a difference in SQ as a move up the chain in the amp/preamp/integrated market and not so much if I try to upgrade speakers.  Plus, buying and selling (and shipping) speakers is a PITA.  But having just upgraded from Devialet D200 to the dual mono D400 and loving it, it feels odd having $8000 (I'm in the used market almost exclusively) worth of power running $4000 worth of speakers, Dynaudio Contour 30's. 

I'm now wanting to upgrade again to the Expert Pro 440, but then we're taking about $10,000 and even more of a skewed ratio.
What is the proper ratio?  Thoughts?
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@tlinkie, yes white  speakers, white background goes down really well. Helps with imagery a bit too.

As for this magical ratio, well as @mikapen said sometimes spending more = worse sound. Not all companies are like Harbeth or ATC where spending more gives a better sound. Far from it, especially for amps/cables etc. But we all know that, don't we?

Again, it all depends upon at which price point you can hear the performance flat lining.

You might have to discover where the sweet spot in a particular range might be, or else risk being forced out of your listening room by the sheer number of boxes which have almost surreptitiously taken up residence.

I have a friend whose front room looks like he's installed a console from Cape Canaveral. Seriously, reconnecting or rewiring his receiver is a two man half day job.
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Rule of thumb is that speakers (including subs) should be 1/2 your budget. If buying used gear it throws it off, but still. 
 
If a $1000 speaker needs a $2000 amp to sound good, then it’s not a good speaker. 
 
How I would spend $10,000: 
 
• -$3000: Ascend Acoustics Sierra Towers w/RAAL. 
• -$1800: Dual Rythmik F12 subs. 
• -$1000: Room treatment.  
• -$1300: MiniDSP SHD. 
• -$2200: ATI AT522NC amp. 
• -$700: Cables (don’t need to spend this much, but why not).
The lower powered Sherwood 7100 & 7100A beat the pants off Sherwood 7200 and 7300.  The Yamaha CR 620 is also easily better sounding than the CR 1020 and 2020.  I know, I tried several  of each model.  Sure they're older receivers, but the lower powered ones had simpler power supplies and stages.  They just sound better.  I use the CR 620 with ADS L620s for my video systems.

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