If 2 channel is your priority, as it is for most people here, then just set up your 2 channel as you want it. You'll need an extra Preamp In connection on your amp or preamp. I have a second pre-in on my amp.
Buy a nice AV amp with as many channels as you want. I recommend the Marantz cinema 50 but you may want something nicer or less nice. Run the preamp out for the front 2 channels to the extra input on your 2 channel system. Switch to that input and adjust the volume. presto.
Jerry