@ mrdecibel, you stated "How is it that anyone can put tone, sound staging, or anything else with the "sound" before the performance."
I understand your position, but I think your premise is flawed.
The issue is not performance/composition VERSUS sonic reproduction . The issue at hand is - what is the result of the performance/composition AND sound (sonic character of the recording/playback processes). These elements are synergistic (or at least additive).
Viewed another way, better performances/compositions are necessary, but not sufficient... AND better sounding recordings/gear improve the experience of ALL recordings. You need BOTH.
IMO - You can not truly appreciate musicianship and composition when listening to poorly engineered recordings (I just gave away ~600 LPs of this type). Conversely, great recordings of mediocre performances are equally unsatisfying (I also gave away ~100 LPs of this type).
Give it some thought... I hope you find your answers satisfying.