I think some folks (newbies, mostly) who have stumbled onto this site, or been turned on to it by other members, have their expectations out of proportion
as was said
. Or are simply over valuing their offering (s).
The absence of a sale will be enough to get their attention. If motivated sufficiently, theyll adjust. If not theyll continue to reap the benefits of extended ownership of the piece.
Rather than high price tags being asked for, the anomaly which fascinates me most is this one:
If you are reading this ad you know about this yada yada gizmo, and its reputation . Or words to that effect.
Sure do. Absolutely! Of course!
We know about every thing ever made and its laudable history. Its the law!
That has to be the most ignorant, presumptuous and erudite statement of all time. I always wonder if it isnt the other way around, as so many of those sorts never include any info on it in the ad itself usually no links to other resources either. Neither do some so much as reply giving more info when requested.
I pass on those with all due haste just on principle.
Second to that lack of disclosure are these sorts:
The apparently prearranged sales which show up from time to time, being sold within mere moments of the listing being posted yet not marked as SOLD and NO response indicating such an event took place.
and Im talking about ads which come online in the wee hours Ive responded to immediately and waited a couple days for replies, only to hear later it was sold within 1 hour or less. Sheees. I sent my offer within ten minutes agreeing to the full price too on a couple occasions.
Whats up with that?
Astrotoy
Given my own exp. Ive asked to be relieved from an offer I made in haste or my circumstances changed unexpectedly. Life does happen, now and then. Thats happened to me twice during my membership here. Both occurances were due to things on my end going south. Another time, it was due to more info continuing to be revealed about the item not previously brought to light at the onset of things.
I always made contact immediately notifying the seller of the instance and my regret. I even offered to provide some renumeration for the inconvenience.
As a seller Ive had my share of excuses too for reneging such as I just got served with divorce papers, Being sued for an auto accident that happened 12 years ago and I must be in court in the morning, My dog needs an operation, or Would you mind if I traded you a ??? and some cash instead?, and my personal favorite, just no reply whatsoever following a previous committal.
Remorse isnt a sin. Changing ones mind either by circumstance or otherwise is not either. But lets be frank and Man up about it. Quickly. Thats just plain consideration, and thoughtfulness.
I wait now to see the funds before I mark my ads accordingly.
A friend of mine has a similar situation and was getting no response following a commitment such as yours. Contacting Audiogone resolved it by them providing him more time for the ad to run as again, available, rather than as SOLD as it had been so marked. So contact Agone with your circumstances, and see what they say. Theyre usually pretty reasonable, and most often quite responsive.
In the long run though, things always work out. Just not when or how I may have wanted them too.
The absence of a sale will be enough to get their attention. If motivated sufficiently, theyll adjust. If not theyll continue to reap the benefits of extended ownership of the piece.
Rather than high price tags being asked for, the anomaly which fascinates me most is this one:
If you are reading this ad you know about this yada yada gizmo, and its reputation . Or words to that effect.
Sure do. Absolutely! Of course!
We know about every thing ever made and its laudable history. Its the law!
That has to be the most ignorant, presumptuous and erudite statement of all time. I always wonder if it isnt the other way around, as so many of those sorts never include any info on it in the ad itself usually no links to other resources either. Neither do some so much as reply giving more info when requested.
I pass on those with all due haste just on principle.
Second to that lack of disclosure are these sorts:
The apparently prearranged sales which show up from time to time, being sold within mere moments of the listing being posted yet not marked as SOLD and NO response indicating such an event took place.
and Im talking about ads which come online in the wee hours Ive responded to immediately and waited a couple days for replies, only to hear later it was sold within 1 hour or less. Sheees. I sent my offer within ten minutes agreeing to the full price too on a couple occasions.
Whats up with that?
Astrotoy
Given my own exp. Ive asked to be relieved from an offer I made in haste or my circumstances changed unexpectedly. Life does happen, now and then. Thats happened to me twice during my membership here. Both occurances were due to things on my end going south. Another time, it was due to more info continuing to be revealed about the item not previously brought to light at the onset of things.
I always made contact immediately notifying the seller of the instance and my regret. I even offered to provide some renumeration for the inconvenience.
As a seller Ive had my share of excuses too for reneging such as I just got served with divorce papers, Being sued for an auto accident that happened 12 years ago and I must be in court in the morning, My dog needs an operation, or Would you mind if I traded you a ??? and some cash instead?, and my personal favorite, just no reply whatsoever following a previous committal.
Remorse isnt a sin. Changing ones mind either by circumstance or otherwise is not either. But lets be frank and Man up about it. Quickly. Thats just plain consideration, and thoughtfulness.
I wait now to see the funds before I mark my ads accordingly.
A friend of mine has a similar situation and was getting no response following a commitment such as yours. Contacting Audiogone resolved it by them providing him more time for the ad to run as again, available, rather than as SOLD as it had been so marked. So contact Agone with your circumstances, and see what they say. Theyre usually pretty reasonable, and most often quite responsive.
In the long run though, things always work out. Just not when or how I may have wanted them too.