Is it okay to talk around your speakers?

Simply talk off-axis & you won't have any problems. This applies to all types of designs.

I have heard it said not to talk closer than the 1st reflection point but that's never been proven.

It might sound dumber, but do speakers remember the music they play? There is a school of thought on this. For example, never play Rap or metal on a system that is used for jazz- it will be damaged forever. It will still play, but not as well. It won't really ever sound good again.

On dealer also told me to never place speakers in a spot that is a "bass node" - IT will cause damage?

This is becoming my favorite comedy site.

I don't talk much to my speakers, other than the occasional "Thank you" after I give them a good Hug!!!

I tip-toe quietly around mine.

Make sure you feed yours with only the highest quality components.

If you ever sell them, mention this in the ad, speakers do have a memory.