I'd like to suggest taking a look at your AC first if you haven't already done so. Dedicated lines, upgraded outlets & PC's should at the very least let you hear what your system is capable of.
For the specifics of listening at higher volume some more headroom with a bigger amp and a tube pre will probably get you closer to what you're searching for.
For the specifics of listening at higher volume some more headroom with a bigger amp and a tube pre will probably get you closer to what you're searching for.