George it sounds like you might have a room problem if you are getting brightness out of that amp with the Golden Reference cables and Joule LA-100. I'm sure it isn't the Electrocompaniet either. What are your room dimensions including height? Positioning of speakers etc.
The Berning is not intrinsically bright and neither are any of the components you are using with the Merlin's.
The Berning is not intrinsically bright and neither are any of the components you are using with the Merlin's.