Hi end audio who cares


During the holidays i had alot of people over my house.
MY wife would insist that i play my stereo for these
people,why i do not know.

Here are some comments that i got(is that a bose)
(We have panasonic at home,we justlove it)
(how much you pay for all that stuff)
(why do you need such big speakers)

I did not one comment such as(wow thatsounds great)
Next time we have company i am hiding the power cords!
taters
Most people could care less. They are happy with terrible sounding boom boxes or the majority of car radio systems. I set up a demo for my employees using an ASL headphone amp with Sennheiser HD600 phones and a Cambridge D500SE player. This little system is killer and everyone who listened to it was blown away, comments were like, "I never knew music could sound this good!" Then they went back to work and were happy listening to their nasty sounding boom boxes. No one even went out and even up-graded to the Bose wave radio! But I guess not everyone can exhibit a discernable level of discrimination in every facet that is available. I can appreciate the attributes of a BMW versus a Chevy and I value the performance and appearance of my Hi-end equipment versus the mid-fi and merely mundane. However, I'm satisfied with a 50.00 flyrod versus an expensive one. I don't have the skills or knowledge (discrimination) to appreciate an expensive rod so I'm happy with what I have. My palate is satisfied with a 5.00 bottle of wine. I could care less about owning a 60 inch plasma screen since I watch very little tv and think that most movies are trash. So, from a 2 channel Hi-end audio perspective I'm a good guy but from a fly fisherman's, Home Theatre or Oenophiles perspective I just don't get it.
In my city there are only 3 hi-end dealers. 2 are ran out of houses and the other is rather snobby piano/hi-end place. I wandered into the third a long time ago to hear some Polk 5b's i read about in Stereo Review. I look back now and i'm glad i went in there. Because i was planning on getting some cerwin vega's untill i heard the polks. But till this day if anyone but my salesman sees me walking around in there they make me feel like i'm not good enough to be there. When i go in to BestBuy i feel like i own the place. Maybe if the hi-end places were a little less snobish they could get a few more people into it.
The most difficult thing I encounter in my own family is the perception that my system sounded plenty fine to their ears several iterations ago, and that I should be spending my money on a Spa for the deck.

I have done many many AB test and my girlfriend was there with me, many many times I have an obvious result of a better one and worse one, but all she been saying is..."Paying $500 for a pair of cables and all you do is just plugging them and unplugging them, I aint hearing no difference!$%#^&$!*%$" I played my system for over 20 people, so pathetic! ONLY 3-5 people knows there is a difference from their current "Jump-Out-Of-Box-And-Serve Panasonic/Technics Sony System" with like a million piece of LEDs, and a 100 buttons in one box. Someone also asked "Why do you have water hoses running into your electronics?" I almost choked to death with my Buffalo Wings in my mouth! It's a world of me and my gear, no one else... Maybe here, in Audiogon I would feel like there is also other folks playing the same baseball game here....
Oh also, one day my girl complaint that she doesnt know how to watch DVDs, so I taught her. If I charge $50.00 for an hour teching people how to use my system, I wouldve got so rich from her. It took her 4 hours just to learn how to turn on a DVD player and to play a DVD and get sound from my receiver; plus a little troubleshooting (which is a 2 word SUPER TROUBLESHOOTER "POWERING OFF!"). After one day, she's gonna have to ask me how again, because she couldnt store any process more than 10 steps in her brain. I really tried, I tried....