Iso - When I married my wife, who at the time was already a doctor of considerable clinical experience, I naturally assumed she would cure me of my audionervosa. In spite of several years of marital contentment, she has failed utterly in that endeavor.
In fact, she never initiated any treatment whatsoever. At times when I've demanded medical attention, which medical ethics compels her to provide, she uses strange phrases like "I'm respecting boundaries" or "It's your decision" or "Have fun, honey." Once, she even suggested that we take equity out of the house so I could build a dedicated listening room behind the garage.
So, in fact, I believe I am beyond hope.
Leave me here. Save yourselves.
Bryon