Thanks, Halcro. There can be other reasons for the perceived tonal balance to change with level, but I think differing thermal compression characteristics among drivers is usually the main one.
Heykay, even though your 12 by 19 foot room would probably be considered "medium sized", the fact that it's open into another large room means that it's in effect a "large" room as far as the bass region goes. My opinion would be, either go with speakers "voiced" for a large room or consider using a sub with the intention of adding a little bit more energy across the bass region (rather than merely filling in below the main speakers, which is the more common usage for a sub). In many cases an opening into an adjoining room acts as a huge bass trap and can actually be beneficial, provided you can get the bass level up enough to offset the loss of bass energy.
Duke