The manual also shows connecting the Rel via the Low-Level input, but I'm not clear on where to connect on the Oppo or if it is going to do the same as the speakeron.REL's theory is that connecting at speaker level rather than at line-level/low level is preferable, because it results in the sonic effects of the amplifier being reflected in the signals provided to the sub as well as in the signals provided to the main speakers. Not everyone agrees with that theory, but I see no reason not to proceed in that manner.
I got the w4s amp because it had balanced inputs and the B&K didn't. Rel said because I had the .1lfe connected that it would act as a ground for the sub ....Yes it probably would provide an adequate ground, given that the Oppo is connected to the W4S amp. The reason I say "probably," though, is that if the Oppo is connected to the amp via XLR's there is a possibility that the design of the amp is such that the ground on the XLR connectors (pin 1 on those connectors) might be connected to the amp's chassis, rather than to its circuit ground. Which would still probably work ok, but might result in the same hum issue I indicated could arise if the black wire were connected to a chassis screw.
Also, not being familiar with the Oppo, I'm not sure if doing that would result in an LFE signal being sent into the sub that would be unwanted for two-channel listening.
In any event, my suggestion of soldering the black wire to the ground sleeve of an RCA plug, and connecting that plug to an RCA input connector on the amp, is virtually certain to work, and may provide a ground that is "better" (i.e., sonically preferable) than a ground that is circuitously provided via the Oppo. Although connecting the black wire to a chassis screw on the amp is also worth trying.
Regards,
-- Al