Hi slaw,
I realize that you have real issues and that can be frustrating in and of itself. Feeling that you cannot get resolution can easily push one over the edge. Obviously you meant no malice in starting this thread, but look what happened. We unfortunately now live in a world where there are not only those with a well-directed intent to help, but also many that are searching for opportunities to spread malice at every turn. Unfairly, we must take extra precautions in our public communications to avoid giving the latter a forum to create malevolent chaos. Not at all just, but true.
Perhaps a thread titled, "Best way to get through to the right folks at VPI?" or similar would have yielded better response to your issues and avoided this unfortunate and unintended scenario. Or, unfortunately, maybe not. At least it would have been your best foot forward in getting your needs met.
Not your fault at all, so please don’t look at this as blame or criticism, but that’s just how it is these days. I pity earnest manufacturers of audio gear, including Mat and Harry, that have to endure this type of abuse (not your’s) in this era of vengeful intent.
Best to you slaw and Merry Christmas,
Dave