Qs about Bias

I posted it in my other thread about ARC Ref 110 but I guess nobody followed on the old topic since I Didn't see any replies.

After I put new KT120 in my ARC Ref 110 I adjusted the bias after a few hours and again after about 50hrs of play.
Few Questions:
1. when adjusting bias I understand the amp has to be warmed up but also disconnected from the speakers and the pre-amp....is that correct ?
2. The manual says to adjust the main tube to 65mV and only check the slave tube to ensure it is between 55 and 73mV...when I use my digital meter I get to 65mVDC but it jumps between 64.8 and 65.3....never seems to actually stop at exactly 65.0mVDC
3. In addition the slave tubes in the pair always displays negative voltage....and I made sure I use the probes correctly and don't reverse the polarity... so let say I adjust the Bias till I get 65.2 and then check the other tube and get - 60mvDC....so this is in the range but shows reversed current.

Hope to get some clarity on this process....THANK YOU!