It's interesting that guys who build equipment from scratch very often talk about building for minimal or just barely enough gain, because in their way of thinking, gain is inevitably accompanied by added distortion and after all you're throwing away energy by sinking it to ground through a resistance, when you use a volume control to tame excessive gain. (They do not like attenuators.) I have educated myself about circuit design, and I do a lot of tweaking of circuits but not much building from scratch. Yet I have found in practice in my system that an excess of gain always has sounded "better" to me than having just "enough" gain. Dynamics are better, signal to noise ratio seems to be better. The trade-off is that you need to have a very excellent and transparent attenuator to realize all the benefits of the surplus of gain; the attenuator becomes a critical piece of the puzzle. (I have heard my own Atma-sphere MP1 phonolinestage both ways, with barely enough gain for a LOMC and now with prodigious gain, sufficient even to run an Ortofon MC2000 [.05mV output] without a SUT. I like the high gain version much better but only after upgrading the attenuator.)
On the other hand, I disagree with you in dismissing active gain stages as compared to using a SUT, to achieve sufficient gain. I am not saying that a SUT cannot give a great result, but so too can a properly devised active gain stage, for dealing with low output cartridges. The experience you relate here has to do with one particular sample of one phono stage, not enough data to support a general conclusion on the merits of phono gain stages. (Nor does my anecdote support a generalization, I admit. It only suggests there is more than one path.)
On the other hand, I disagree with you in dismissing active gain stages as compared to using a SUT, to achieve sufficient gain. I am not saying that a SUT cannot give a great result, but so too can a properly devised active gain stage, for dealing with low output cartridges. The experience you relate here has to do with one particular sample of one phono stage, not enough data to support a general conclusion on the merits of phono gain stages. (Nor does my anecdote support a generalization, I admit. It only suggests there is more than one path.)