I think that choosing speakers is perhaps the most difficult task. Over time I've learned a few things that work for me.
1- Decent speakers can sound pretty darn good when powered by excellent electronics.
2- "Great" speakers can sound pretty darn awful when powered by mediocre electronics.
3-Auditioning speakers, even at high-end audio salons, yields just a taste of what they can or cannot deliver. It's only when one takes them home, and lives with them, that one begins to understand.
4- The room is a very important component, often overlooked.
I read many reviews and so-called buyer's guides of numerous speakers before I made my choices. Since then I've spent months dialing in what I have. I love the journey but I also enjoy arriving a favorable end of said journey. My goal is to enjoy music in my home- I'm there. Thankfully.
I understand that "better" speakers exist. At this point I don't care. :)
FYI: I have Sonus Faber Cremona Auditor M's and Magnepan .7's. Completely different designs and both are completely enjoyable depending on my mood and the weather outside.