In my own personal opinion and tastes, I would choose the Hegel.
The Bryston amps are very clean and strong, but I think they have a tendency to sound somewhat flat or sterile, so your comment about having a smaller soundstage would tend to agree. I think the Bryston preamps can be on the bright side in the high frequencies as wells.
I don't have any experience with the Benchmark BHK, but it appears to be similar to a Class D amp type circuit. Limited listening shows the BHK to be very smooth and clean, but it may not be as engaging (like other class d amps).
I think the Hegel would "sing" the best. It is definitely high resolution and has a lot of impact. The only downside would be that you might get "distracted" by the good sounding music while you work in your office, lol.