Too much bass and you get boom, not enough and the sound is thin.
You have an excellent amp, so how about this idea:
A set of Legacy Audio Calibres with active bass and a Wavelet processor.
The speakers would cost $6,200.00 with the built in bass amp and the Wavelet is $5,000.00 for a combined price of $11,200.00 brand new.
Now you get a superb small monitor with active bass, and you get a new preamp, dac, and room correcton processor as part of the package.
With this combination the processor can remove boomy bass and you can adjust the sound to deliver the sonic flavor you wish.
So unless you move into something like this you will always be at the mercy of the room, with room correction you can acoustically take the room's limitions out of the equation and the Calibres offer outstanding sonics with deep enough bass to be satisfying without having to use some kind of woofer/sat combo.
Just a thought.
Dave and Troy
Audio Doctor NJ