I totally get where you are coming from. Although I shake my head in awe listening to Vinnie Caliuta or Danny Carey - as these guys are insane. I prefer a more musical passionate and approachable style that fits tightly with the band and the song.
Of course I know the muscle shoals drummer. This was one place the Rolling Stones has to go to pay tribute to what may be the best rhythm section ever in pop blues and soul. There is a great documentary movie about Muscle Shoals - I highly recommend it if you can find it on Netflix.