Am I dreaming?

Devialet ?

If you are looking for cheaper option you may like Parasound Halo Integrated. Has everything you need. Stereophile class A integrated amplifier. 
Review: https://www.stereophile.com/content/parasound-halo-integrated-integrated-amplifier

I love the Vinnie Rossi gear...I have heard it at RMAF in Denver many times and talked with Vinnie, he’s an electronic genius IMO.

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned Primaluna.  Their Dialogue HP integrated can be fitted with a phono input, which I've heard is very good.  It's an extra $300.  It has a headphone amp built in, is very flexible with tube rolling, and it sounds great.  You could have a new one delivered, with the phono input for under $5k.  One box, good resale, good sound.  I think it checks all of your boxes, and isn't McIntosh money.  (nothing against the Mac gear!!)

I'm on my second PL integrated, and have no desire to look at any others.  Mine does not have the phono input, so I can't comment on its quality.  But with a Manley Chinook phono preamp, it's spectacular.

IMHO,your not going to find what your looking for in a single box. You would be better off with a high quality intergrated and headphone amp and phono stage.