Sorry, but you're confused.
If you keep the volume on the Vivaldi between -9-14dB for a -20dBFS signal, the volume level on the Vivaldi will still be at -9-14dB for a 0dBFS peak signal. The attenuation level stays constant irrespective of the source's signal amplitude, the same attenuation level is applied to a -20dBFS signal and a 0dBFS signal.
-20dBFS signal + 9dB attenuation = -29dBFS signal
0dBFS signal + 9dB attenuation = -9dBFS signal
So you always listen at -9-14dBFS peak levels.
Keeping the volume between -9-14dB on the Vivaldi for the 0.6V setting means the output level is too high.
If you keep the volume on the Vivaldi between -9-14dB for a -20dBFS signal, the volume level on the Vivaldi will still be at -9-14dB for a 0dBFS peak signal. The attenuation level stays constant irrespective of the source's signal amplitude, the same attenuation level is applied to a -20dBFS signal and a 0dBFS signal.
-20dBFS signal + 9dB attenuation = -29dBFS signal
0dBFS signal + 9dB attenuation = -9dBFS signal
So you always listen at -9-14dBFS peak levels.
Keeping the volume between -9-14dB on the Vivaldi for the 0.6V setting means the output level is too high.