WC, you have to be very careful about room treatment. Your wife so far is understanding in your hobby. However, some room treatments are seriously butt ugly and she may not go for it. WAF would seriously come into play here. Some that the stuff out there is really bad looking
Also, contrary to what some have written, there are better speakers out there than the Neoliths. I really like the Neoliths so don't get me wrong. But, its like I tell my track and field athletes. There is always someone out there that is faster, stronger, can jump higher, further than you. So don't get the big head. Just be the best you can be and that is all.
Pre-amp/amp compatibility is important.
Amp/speaker compatibility is equally important. This is why demo'ing one change at a time is really important. Switching out several pieces means you can't tell which piece is making the difference. I would imagine that many of the amps that WC has tried would sound absolutely wonderful with the REF 10 and Neoliths.
For people that aren't in the amp of the month club, some of us are simply (funny) trying to get "there" with equipment/sound reproduction.
some people just like electronics and playing around. Nothing wrong with that either.
WC is on a different kind of journey. more power to him. But be careful, a divorce is near if you start playing with room treatment without your wife's buy-in. I think equipment looks and styling has come a long way. The DAG equipment is just beautiful to me. And by-the-way, the DAG separates would seriously outperform the DAG integrated. no question.
But, the room treatment stuff, still has a long way to go as far as looks are concerned.
If you are "there" with the speakers, then fine. but, have you heard Vandersteen 7's? oh boy. Seriously expensive tho.
enjoy