Ryun - I expect you will find good subwoofer advice here. I am not a subwoofer expert, but I have an idea about the nausea you are experiencing.
Researchers have developed Infrasonic Weapons which operate in the 2-4 Hz range which cause nausea to the point of debilitation and death. I suspect you might have an ultra low frequency leak either going into or generated by your subwoofer. If you have a low-cut / high-pass filter, set it around 10 Hz and see if the problem goes away.You can see such low frequencies as cone motion, even though you don't hear them.
Researchers have developed Infrasonic Weapons which operate in the 2-4 Hz range which cause nausea to the point of debilitation and death. I suspect you might have an ultra low frequency leak either going into or generated by your subwoofer. If you have a low-cut / high-pass filter, set it around 10 Hz and see if the problem goes away.You can see such low frequencies as cone motion, even though you don't hear them.