Given the lack of the brick wall that you described, why wouldn't that be clearly understandable that such an effect were possible?The question is not whether it is clearly understandable, but what does one do about it?
There are multiple complexities at work. Not only is there the selection of the crossover frequency and slope between the subs and speakers, but one also has the issue of phase interaction since the speaker driver will be in a different physical spot than the sub. The sub and speaker may be additive at one frequency and subtractive at another. Move the distance between them and that may change.
The room's interactive nodes are a related, but separate issue.
Since there are multiple variables in play, what helps fix one problem may aggravate another. Hopefully that gives a bit of insight as to why some sub integrations are more successful than others.