Hello DB,
I understand, connecting the surround front LR main speakers outputs from the SP3 to a LR designated input on your Ayre preamp is functionally the same thing as having a HT/Bypass Switch on the Ayre preamp. All resulting in you having a convenient method of switching between music and HT use/listening on your unified system.
Well done! And you accomplished this all without taking my original advice of using your Oppo 205. I meant it when I stated I trust you know what you're doing.
BTW, if everything functions up to your expectations, I'm willing to purchase your Oppo 205 at a reasonably premium price along with the shipping costs if you no longer need it.
Thanks and congratulations,
Tim