Extravagant shipping charge

Why should anyone pay for the person selling the item for his time in packing up the item and driving to the FedEx or UPS store?   That is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard.  That person must be a corporate executive whose time is very valuable, LOL.  If you are selling something, you should be charging exactly what it costs you to ship and not a penny more.  When I ship at the UPS store, I get a 10% AAA discount which I ALWAYS pass on to the customer. 

Not everyone knows how to ship or pack for that matter. There is part of our society that would pay someone else to do that for them, never think of doing it themselves and see no reason the buyer would have problem dealing that way. I have had dealings with similar people and they are not going to change their minds as it is the course of their everyday lives.

Just for fun, I took the OP's  20" x 20" x 15" - 60lb. box, shipped from Portland, OR to Northern Florida and ran it thru (3) shipping rate calculators: FedEx Home Delivery _retail - $107.44.  FedEx Home Delivery _ using my account - $75.79.  FedEx Home Delivery _ sold via eBay - $55.95 or 47% off of retail.

Ok, let's add $15.00 for (2) new boxes and $10.00 for packing material + any sales tax for your state.  So retail $107.44 + $25.00 = $132.44 + tax if charged. While there are always cheaper ways to do things, not everyone would want to spend time doing so.

Ok, let’s add $15.00 for (2) new boxes and $10.00 for packing material + any sales tax for your state. So retail $107.44 + $25.00 = $132.44 + tax if charged. While there are always cheaper ways to do things, not everyone would want to spend time doing so.

You are right on. That’s how I get quoted for $150. ;-)
Well, now it’s all over. I don’t get charged, and I am not buying it. If possible, I’ll try to avoid buying something that will cost me extra for boxes, packing material, gas to the UPS/Fedex store, the service fee for staffs to pack, ...

I know it cost around $95.00 to ship an item that weighs about 50lbs from West coast to East coast however if the shipper opens an account with Fedex which now you have to do if you use Fedex ground, will save you about thirty dollars on the forementioned. But I can tell you that UPS will charge even more than Fedex.