I still think the audiophile thinks his aural memory is much keener than it is and not susceptible to audio forum interference/influence.
Oh no. How? How could that possibly be the case? Only if maybe someone popped out of the womb and straight away started churning out Fremer-level reviews. Which no one ever did.
We all had to learn how to hear. We all struggled to attain whatever level we are at. For sure that was the case with me. Go read through my posts, you'll fine a whole bunch saying this same thing. Several long ones recount how it took me one full year just to learn to distinguish good DAC from bad CD. Then about another year developing that same skill to a level where- cones, footers, cables, elevators, fuses, panels, on and on- it seems there's no end to the things that matter.
And I don't need to match levels, or play the same track twice, or switch fast, or any of that. Which is by the way not bragging nor BS nor even all that unusual. The dealer I learned from never once played the same track twice, and Michael Fremer is somewhere on video saying, "I know some like to do that but I don't."
That's not to say it can't help. When learning any sport- racquetball, golf, autocross- what's the first thing the coach always has you do? Practice. Break it down to some dumb little part and do that one little part over and over and over again until you get good at it.
Which, let's face it, nobody very much likes. Well, sorry. Too bad. I mean really, its just too darn bad. Truth exists, and whether you like it or not the Truth is you never get good at anything any other way than by doing it. A lot.
You want to know the truth? The truth is this fact is so well known I think every single one of us knows this very well. We just would rather delude ourselves and make excuses for our shortcomings, because this is a whole lot easier than admitting the shortcomings.
But hey, your life, your choice. You can make excuses. Or you can do the work.
Choose wisely.