Guest suddenly takes it upon herself to move my speakers


Has this ever happened to anyone here?

You have your speakers positioned just as you like them, and then a guest takes it upon themselves to suddenly move your speakers?

Obviously I’m not going to get any sympathy from anyone in the non Audio world, so I thought I’d post my frustrating experience here.

I also imagine that many of your speakers can’t simply be slid out of position due to spikes or carpeting or sheer weight. Probably a good number of you, who like me have speakers on hardwood floors, have some marks in place to be able to return speakers to their exact position. (Which I didn’t)

But a recent female first time guest was sitting on the floor positioned between the speakers as we listened and for some reason decided that they should be pointed directly at her. Now some people might think “how obnoxious,” and others might think, ‘hey, a woman who wants the toe in angle optimzed for her seating position! She’s a keeper! Let her handle whatever she wants!”

And while I did like the enthusiasm, there was a supertweeter precariously balanced atop each speaker fireing rearward that could have easily toppled off and broken. (And no, there are no kids in the house).

I still haven’t found the exact sweet spot I had them in. For a long time I felt like a bit of an audio slacker since I never installed the factory spikes or rounded cones TAD provides for the CR1’s. Until a few months ago I read on another forum that many CR1 owners choose to just keep the stands on the floor, or haven’t found a benefit to using the spikes/cones on hardwood.

Obviously I’ll use the incident to try and eventually find an even more optimal positioning than they were in, but it still irks me that someone would just assume it’s okay to move a sophisticated audio setup that they truly know nothing about.

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Oh my god! You were sitting in the room with her, watched while she moved the speakers, and now you are complaining about HER!  Get a grip and take some responsibility! She had no idea what she was doing, but you did, and you did nothing about it...   Learn from the experience and speak up. Perhaps you were led by other thoughts!
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this seams like a good lesson for everyone who cares about their gear. Tell people your concern, protect your gear, and trust no one. It is being overprotective, but it is such a pain to deal with it later. It is amazing how many people do not claim responsibility. I would write down your specs, get locks for your gear. And when you have a service person in your listening room cover your gear in moving blankets and watch them like a hawk. I don’t leave the room. If I do I would ask them to leave. Also make sure the service company gets you a copy of their insurance. I know this sounds way too over protective. Look at what can happen. Some gear cannot be fixed or replaced. As for the girl who moved the speakers. Ask her to help you set them back up. If she doesn’t, she better be worth the hassle. 
If you are going to invite people into your house you should treat them like guest.  If you don't want them looking at, touching, breathing on, moving or otherwise interacting with your high fidelity system, then keep your system in a locked room.  If that is not possible, then you need to accept that there could be an "incident".  What the OP described is not a big deal.  Even if the person had damaged the loudspeakers the proper response of the host should be, "Don't worry, it's not a problem."

Tradesmen are a different type of problem.  IMO, you should be in the room with them at all times.
I brought a buddy to an audiophile friend's house. Went to his music room to listen to a new record I gave as Christmas gift. My buddy didn't really pay attention to the music but was curious, approached the KEF 105.2 left channel, then touched and turned the mid-range and tweeter enclusures. I couldn't say a word as I watched in disbelief but our host blurted, "Oh nooh...!", then proceeded to explain in a nice way to my buddy what he just did. That ruined our listening session. And I had to apologize. Good my friend kept a record of everything.

Sad story, but there are people who don't know enough about stereo. Everytime we invite people, especially those we are not familiar with to our music rooms, we also invite risk. 

After that incident, I took note of everything from stylus tracking pressure to speaker position in my own system.