Part of the problem is a fringe group of very loud and obnoxious bullies have been lording it over everyone for so long now and it has gotten so blatant and awful that more and more people are rising up and standing athwart history and saying, "ENOUGH!"
And you are not programmed to deal with this, and you are frustrated. Of course you are. You are NPC.
And you are not programmed to deal with this, and you are frustrated. Of course you are. You are NPC.