Fyne also do concentric tweeters, at a number of price points. Good reviews but hard to audition.
Along the lines of the Spendor Classic 100 already recommended, I'm going to mention the Harbeth 40.2, which does a lot of what you're looking for very well indeed, but probably stumbles on size/looks.
For a non-opinionated take on audio in NJ, yes, go to Johnny R at Audio Connection. Listen to the Vandersteen 4's and see what you think.