I have always used FedEx to ship the vintage drums I restore, and have in over 900 ebay transactions not had a single carton damaged or lost. I pack everything myself, lots of bubble wrap and blocks of foam.
Sheila Berdan just shipped me a tube power amp, about 70 lbs. in the custom wood crate someone made for it (lined with dense foam). I heard the UPS truck drive up, and quickly opened the garage door and started rolling my dolly down the driveway. When the driver and I met in the middle, he leaned forward and dropped the crate onto the dolly from about a foot above it. The crate was stenciled "Fragile" on it’s top and all sides, along with arrows pointing upwards and "This Side Up".
I of course removed the bottom panel of the amp after unpacking it, and was relieved to see nothing had been knocked loose. Roger Modjeski built his amps to last. ;-) Just for the record, though born and raised in Richmond, Virginia, Roger moved to the ultra-liberal, leftist California to attend Stanford University (whose dorms my teenage band performed in, all the while being plied with keg beer). I guess that's when Roger was brainwashed and indoctrinated by his radical electronics professors, for California is where he set up shop for his Music Reference and RAM Tube Works businesses.
Apparently beautiful Santa Barbara wasn't radical enough for Mr. M, as he eventually moved his operation to the Bay Area, the Berkeley side of the Bay no less. Not far away (on the coast above Mill Valley), the true genius (a term used far too, heh, liberally for my liking) loudspeaker designer Siegfried Linkwitz did his research and development. Nelson Pass---another radical thinker ;-) ---was a neighbor.