@avanti1960
The good thing is that it all sounds good now so the changes will either sound better and stay or I will go back to the current set up.
your best sounding option is to decouple between speaker and standThat is a consideration, but the trade-offs are the loss of the additional mass provided by the stand and the additional stability resulting from the outrigger effect of the stand being wider than the relatively slim speaker. I will consider that but I am not really comfortable from the standpoint of stability.
The good thing is that it all sounds good now so the changes will either sound better and stay or I will go back to the current set up.