There is a reason: In most consumer (and professional) amplifiers the balanced signal is dealt with at the input by a differential amplifier necessitating the need for a series resistor on the inverting input. In the worst case the diff amp is the load seen by the source so the resitor needs to be large enough to present a reasonable input impedance (that’s the ’relatively high’ part).@pragmasi
Any gain stage (differential, balanced or not) might need stopping resistors at its inputs, but I suspect this isn’t what you’re talking about.
We’ve been building differential amplifiers for balanced inputs longer than anyone else in home audio (IOW we’ve introduced balanced operation to home audio with our MA-1 amplifier in 1986 and followed up with the first fully differential balanced preamp in 1989), and using vacuum tubes have nevertheless gotten fairly good CMMR values, in excess of 100dB. Each input (pin 2 or pin 3 of the XLR) sees the same input impedance, which is what you would expect of a balanced input, and both have the same resistance between the XLR connection and the actual grids of the input tube. So far we’ve not seen any such need for a resistor as you describe. For what are you thinking this resistor is needed/what’s its function?
You can see a simplified example of one of our input circuits in the article at this link:
http://www.atma-sphere.com/en/resources-understanding-our-circuits.html
As you can see, the diagram is a textbook example of a differential circuit. I really am mystified by what resistor you’re talking about! Can you explain in greater detail?