First to everyone: THANK YOU for the great advice! Some have asked about what the rest of the system is:
Freya+
PS Audio Stellar S300 Power Amp
ifi NEO iDSD DAC
Denon
Pro DN-500BD MKII DVDAPC H20 Power Conditioner
Bluejeans Cables throughout
Triangle BR03 speakers (waiting for Tekton Impact Monitors on order)
I completely get the risk of eBay. As usual, the cheap way doesn't work.
Ghost: All great feedback. I'll try the patience thing - I'm going to put the OEM tubs back in and use them for a few weeks, leaving the pre on 24/7 and see how it goes. I listened to an Upscale Audio YouTube video and he was emphatic about all tubes - new or old need a minimum of 200 hrs. before evaluation is meaningful. I'll mess around with the speaker placement and see if that helps. I've played with the toe-in and it helped a bit. More work needs to be done there.
OldHvyMec: Always good advice. So far, I did a lot of research, spent then listened... So I'm listening to you all now and appreciate the feedback. I'll let the OEM tubes settle in for a few hundred hours and see where I stand at that point. If the voicing issue is still there, Checking in with Brent, McShane, and Upscale and see what the options are.
Miller: I've been lurking a bit and have always appreciated your comments. Thanks for affirming what others have said on this one. There's no doubt that my little system has all manner of flaws, and the Freya has likely uncovered some of them. With 2 kids in college, this is the budget I'm dealing with. It's a good reminder that tubes aren't effective tone controls. As an aside, I have a pair of powered Tannoy nearfield studio monitors that I use in a small room system. While they are revealing, there is something in the upper midrange that goes right through me. So I purchased a Schiit Loki EQ (a very very poor man's Cello Audio Pallette) and learned that an EQ won't fix a speaker voicing that you hate...
Thanks All!