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I am really not interested in seeing personal slights. My OP was a set of technical inquiries. Was hoping to see mature technical responses. Most replies thus far have been. Seeing the beginnings of a departure from that here. This is a highly subjective subject. I heard it best from my dealer earlier today. A lot of this is "witchcraft," (please read on) by which he did NOT mean that there were not valid physical explanations for what is going on. He was honestly stating what I agree to be a fact, which is that:
1. There are things that make a difference.
2. Not all will hear the difference.
3. A given difference may or may not be simply perceived (as opposed to real). In other words, some things do not make a difference.
4. Some will find a given difference "good" and others will find the same difference "bad."
5. For the most part, our understanding of what is really going on physically, acoustically, and psychoacoustically in these differences is incomplete, sometimes vastly so.
I don't care to see others' audiophilic manhood called into question because of opinions/preferences on the above (or anything else for that matter).
Back to the dealer. This dealer has never attempted to sell me isolation equipment, though he certainly has it for sale. He believes in it. When I asked him about the topic today, we had the discussion summarized above.
He has a regular stream of folks coming through his door hawking the latest and greatest bits of kit. In most cases, he puts it in his reference system and has the team give a listen. If he and/or they find it to be helpful, they may start selling it. If they find it not to be helpful, they do not sell it (I gathered most things fit this category). He does not sell anything that he does not believe improves SQ. He sells pricey Symphony plinths, and high-dollar power and speaker cables out in plain sight, none of which I intend to buy. Today.
He is a firm believer in trusting your ears. Not his.
He also has a good grip on the twin realities of budget constraints and limitations on what any given client can hear. His flagship system is $275k, but I am going in for a paltry $17k myself to update the electronics behind my AV 5140s, including going Aktiv (Exakt), and to put a modest system in my garage so I can have music while spending time there. This is perhaps more than I should be spending, but I suspect it will be my last large expenditure. I am 58, and the last time I spent serious money on audio was about 20 years ago. I needed to get into the 21st century this time (streaming), and have chosen a path that should be incrementally upgradeable. I have spare drivers for the speakers, which I like a lot.
I bring this dealer up to say that I like his approach: Don't judge. Help others. Know your stuff (he does--he was involved with Jack Renner in the early Telarc recording sessions (Fennell, etc.)). Know your clients (if you are a dealer). Don't belittle others just because you know a lot and have a great pair of ears.
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