chazzzy, kren,
You (chazzzy) are a great person, not just in audio. I learned much from you. You have the nobility to apologize for any past negativity you had towards me, although I didn't get too worked up over that, because you were not over-the-top disrespectful like kren. What really makes you noble is your willingness to change your mind when new evidence is presented to you. You have an open mind, unlike kren. You listened carefully and repeatedly and changed your preferences according to the evidence of your ears, without bias or preconceived notions. In fairness, Kren did the same, which is good. But the evidence that you saw that I listen carefully and competently led you to develop a newfound respect for me and my views. Kren has yet to admit that his choice of words WAS hostile ("you don't know what you're talking about" etc, etc) and continues to be demeaning towards me, even indirectly when he just said, "If someone has a lifetime of musical training yet their audio assessments are infantile, then the musical training helps them play their instrument but doesn’t help them assess audio any more than it helps them dunk a basketball. Speaking generally here not about anyone in particular." INFANTILE--is that appropriate? NOT ABOUT ANYONE IN PARTICULAR--what a falsehood--it is clear you mean ME.
Kren, you suggested that we agree to disagree. That is a good idea only if certain conditions are met. The main one is mutual respect, avoidance of negativity towards each other. For example, Dave (thezaks) has completely different preferences than I. But he has been supportive of my right to voice my objective findings here without sneering attitudes from others who disagree with my assertions. In Dave's own head, he disagrees with my preferences, and he would not consider the equipment I like for his own enjoyment. Fine with me. Our relationship is truly a great example of agreeing to disagree while maintaining mutual respect. If I came to his home and listened to his home theater system, I would enjoy his system and the experience of being with him. Well, maybe I wouldn't enjoy his system much in my own mind, but I would be in a great frame of mind because he is a great guy and I would find something to enjoy and would praise him for it.
So in the future, Kren, please, no direct or implied negativity towards me. I never initiated anything against you, but my negativity towards you was only in response to yours. If you object to any advice I may give Jay or anyone else, don't say that nobody wants to hear it and I should get outta here and write my own thread. That would be the scalding and scolding imposition of your own views, a kind of censorship, the very thing that you criticize me for when you claim that I scold people who have other preferences. How do you know that there is nobody interested in what I say? That's for them to decide for themselves. Good people who disagree with me can ignore me, scroll down and not respond, or if they want to say something, they do so respectfully without negativity. Ron17 is a great example of that.
If you agree to these conditions, we can coexist here. But otherwise, a statement that we agree to disagree is merely a license for you to continue to show your negativity towards me. Most international wars are due to this excuse that the countries agree to disagree. So what--they carry on with mutual destruction because they don't respect each other.
Chazzzy, wise statement from you--"Too much hardship in 2020. Too much acrimony on this thread."
You (chazzzy) are a great person, not just in audio. I learned much from you. You have the nobility to apologize for any past negativity you had towards me, although I didn't get too worked up over that, because you were not over-the-top disrespectful like kren. What really makes you noble is your willingness to change your mind when new evidence is presented to you. You have an open mind, unlike kren. You listened carefully and repeatedly and changed your preferences according to the evidence of your ears, without bias or preconceived notions. In fairness, Kren did the same, which is good. But the evidence that you saw that I listen carefully and competently led you to develop a newfound respect for me and my views. Kren has yet to admit that his choice of words WAS hostile ("you don't know what you're talking about" etc, etc) and continues to be demeaning towards me, even indirectly when he just said, "If someone has a lifetime of musical training yet their audio assessments are infantile, then the musical training helps them play their instrument but doesn’t help them assess audio any more than it helps them dunk a basketball. Speaking generally here not about anyone in particular." INFANTILE--is that appropriate? NOT ABOUT ANYONE IN PARTICULAR--what a falsehood--it is clear you mean ME.
Kren, you suggested that we agree to disagree. That is a good idea only if certain conditions are met. The main one is mutual respect, avoidance of negativity towards each other. For example, Dave (thezaks) has completely different preferences than I. But he has been supportive of my right to voice my objective findings here without sneering attitudes from others who disagree with my assertions. In Dave's own head, he disagrees with my preferences, and he would not consider the equipment I like for his own enjoyment. Fine with me. Our relationship is truly a great example of agreeing to disagree while maintaining mutual respect. If I came to his home and listened to his home theater system, I would enjoy his system and the experience of being with him. Well, maybe I wouldn't enjoy his system much in my own mind, but I would be in a great frame of mind because he is a great guy and I would find something to enjoy and would praise him for it.
So in the future, Kren, please, no direct or implied negativity towards me. I never initiated anything against you, but my negativity towards you was only in response to yours. If you object to any advice I may give Jay or anyone else, don't say that nobody wants to hear it and I should get outta here and write my own thread. That would be the scalding and scolding imposition of your own views, a kind of censorship, the very thing that you criticize me for when you claim that I scold people who have other preferences. How do you know that there is nobody interested in what I say? That's for them to decide for themselves. Good people who disagree with me can ignore me, scroll down and not respond, or if they want to say something, they do so respectfully without negativity. Ron17 is a great example of that.
If you agree to these conditions, we can coexist here. But otherwise, a statement that we agree to disagree is merely a license for you to continue to show your negativity towards me. Most international wars are due to this excuse that the countries agree to disagree. So what--they carry on with mutual destruction because they don't respect each other.
Chazzzy, wise statement from you--"Too much hardship in 2020. Too much acrimony on this thread."