why do so many discussions turn contentious?


just venting....why do so many discussion posts need to turn  contenious and nasty?  do you guys find that constructive and/or enjoyable?  I have no clue who or how this forum is moderated, but I sure would love to see a stop to that...it makes me feel like this hobby is dominated by total jerks.

Can't we play nice, share OPINIONS and OBSERVATIONS, realizing that  they often are subjective and biased.  
"if you dont have anything nice to say, say nothing"?  If you wish to disagree, do it in a constructive and mature fashion, no need for "argument ad hominem"...

with all the chaff, one must waste so much time finding the wheat, figuratively speaking.  

I doubt my writing this will change anything, but, like most social media, people writing to others without facing them does not bring out the best, sadly......



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If company pay me $300,000 per year I find way to moderate. I hire people to please those that want scholar conversation and please those that find value freedom and those that want punishment and those that want monkey business conversation and those that for those that want promote own business and those that want stress relief and those that want all above. That bargain for pleasing all side. I make voice to text so some can get post while washing dish and ability to share video so everyone get to bottom of people desire to have glory sound people that listen instead of post all day. I create workout plan so you get jack up lose belly and women flood to you at gym.  I create post about my wife setup to get added pleasure from subwoofer system that she rate as highest regard. That all very cheap for making everyone satisfy.

tubebuffer,

I notice that your posts always end up being about sex. I'm not criticizing, just an observation.😉

All white this morning in SW Michigan, but too early to check the ice thickness on the lake.  Time to go to the gym.