There are some XLR balanced circuits that need a load on the inverted "-" pin of the XLR connector. If you do not have a load on this pin, the circuit may run hot. This could be the cause of your amp shutdown problem. The Cardas RCA-to-XLR adapater is NOT the proper solution here because these adapaters will either float the negative pin or shunt it to ground.
You really need a unbalanced-to-balanced transformer, such as the Jenson ISO-MAX.