Single Ended vs Balanced Output Gain


I run an ARC Ref 3SE phono with VAC Sig Mkll SE pre and VAC Phi 200 monos; the gain in the phono is 6 dB less in Single Ended  compared to Balanced; the pre specs show no difference in output gain Single Ended vs Balanced; the gain in the amps is 6 dB greater Single Ended compared to Balanced.  Why the difference in output gain between the two?  Is this typical on pre and amps that have both Single Ended and Balanced Outputs?

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I know for sure XLR system get good sound, and get big sound , (I mean the sound get spacious) and get high,mid,bass in balanced. But in reality, it won’t win in all situations.

In my case, I listen vocal Jazz 99%, I want a low voice most of the time as I do not want to disturb kids learning.

I want the singer voice outstanding among all sound.

So in this case, definitely go RCA connection.

The most important thing I forgot to mention is that my RCA pre get perfect sound in my point of view,if I changed the pre, the sound is different. I also try RCA to xlr cable, the sound is also different.I will stay with this pre,that's the reason, and this pre does not have xlr port.

In my case, I listen vocal Jazz 99%, I want a low voice most of the time as I do not want to disturb kids learning.

I want the singer voice outstanding among all sound.

Never mind that the recording was made using balanced connections!

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