@ted_denney That may be, there are a great many who do not need validation by what equipment we own, the size of our house or what car we drive.
A car is just metal and rubber to me. My sound system is just that a system for listening to wonderful music. My house though some may consider large is a home for may family and it would be a home even if it were a double wide in Oklahoma.
The home and family make me the man that I am and what my station is in life. Not my stereo system.
I do not seek validation from anyone but my family and my higher power.