Hi Everyone,
I wanted to start by thanking all of you for your thoughtful suggestions, help and kind words!! Thank You!
Second: I bought a paid of speakers (YAY!!). More on this in a minute.
Third: What happened. Many of the suggestions were basically impossible to audition, unfortunately. They just simply were available to audition, at home or otherwise. I reached out to basically all the brands suggest and many were really helpful as they could have been, one of which offered that if I flew to the US to hear the speakers, and bought them, they would pay for my air fare: A really nice gesture. The risk, however, was too great to take trips around the USA, flights, hotel, food, and so on, and I may still not love the speakers. Not to mention the time needed away from the office... I have to be practical and things that I can hear in my city are what ended up making the list. So what made the list?
Sonus Faber Guarneri's
Wilson SabrinaX (and Sophia V1's)
Focal Sopra 2 & 3's
Paradigm Persona 7F
Klipsch K-Horns, Heresy & Cornwall's
Not the most comprehensive list, but it's what I could hear. The closest Revel dealer is more than 6 hours by car away, so it also didn't make the cut.
Briefly Horns (read, Klipsch) aren't for me. That's not a knock on them, and I can certainly see why so many love them, but they just aren't my jam. Again, no judgment, we all have personal taste, and variety is the spice of life, and others will not care for my taste. And that's okay. You do you, I'll do me :)
The Paradigms were really nice but have a "house sound" that is very similar to my Paradigms (recessed mids). They are fantastic for classic rock. Like, really, really good. But I listen to more than that, and after having Paradigms for 20+ years, I want a change. Been there, done that.
The Focal's. I like the 2's more than the 3's. Judge me for it. I'm okay with that. The 2's felt more "together" or, I guess the audiophile term is "cohesive". They were easier to listen too, less "hifi" sounding and more just... Good sounding. I found the 2's less bright than than the 3's, but in the end, both were brighter than what I want.
Sonus Faber Guarneri. Wow. These are EASLITY the most beautiful speaker I have ever seen. They had the Serafino's as well which are also stunning, but the Guarneri are just... Something else. I was heavily biased towards these from the get go. Heck, I want a pair to have in my home, I don't care if they are even hooked up! The sound... They are the best speaker I've ever experienced (and this experience is limited) with vocals. Especially female vocals. If I listened to that only, this would be the speaker. People talk about sound having flash and bone. I get what they mean now. If you've never heard these, you owe it to yourself to hear them. The are so unreal, they are human sounding.
Wilson Sophia V1's... These made me well up. There was an immediate emotional connection for me. 20 years ago I was sitting with a dealer and I asked what made a good speaker good. His answer stuck with me forever: If the hairs on the back of your neck are standing on end, it's a good speaker. My hairs we on were on full salute. These are very special speakers to me. But, and there are a few buts, they are old and the tweeters did have some deration on the surrounds. I was concerned about longevity as the Wilson dealer warned they are likely near impossible to replace. Apparently Wilson does not have back stock of them. Second, and this was the nail in the coffin, they have a sharp leading edge. They sounded good, amazing in fact, for a bit, but they the end and I didn't want to keep going. Perhaps with tubes and tweaking it can be tamed, but I'm not going down that route. For the money these go for... What a steal.
Wilson SabrinaX's. What can I say... Take the emotion of the Sophia's, get rid of the leading edge, add in 95% of the vocal magic of the Guarneri's and put it in a small (albeit challenging to drive) cabinet and you have the SabrinaX's. To me, it was the clear winner and there really was no second place. These speakers have been getting very good reviews, and I get why. I really do. Yes, the carpet in the front is terrible, the looks are polarizing, as is the brand, but to me, these are very, very special speakers that do very little wrong. What is wrong? Well, they don't image or do vocals as well as the Guarneri's (1 way vs 3 way, big cabinet vs small) they don't have the bass impact of the Sophia's (but a sub can be added if needed), they are demanding to drive (we all know about the wild impedance curve) and, so I hear, placement is a bugger. But when amps well, and placed right, oh baby do these girls sing, and rock!
So bought 'em.
Are they they best option for my room? Almost certainly not. They are pretty shallow so I should have about 22 inches from the wall to the back of the cabinet. In the end, I made an emotional decision, taking into considered the best information I could get. The speakers are made to spec (apparently) so after selecting the cabinet, grill and spike colours, they should be ready in about 10 weeks.
Now I have deal with an amp... But that's for another thread.
Thank you all again for your help and I hope some of you aren't too upset with my decision. Hopefully the speakers are Jekyll and Hyde in my room, but time will tell. As long as the essence of what I heard (and it was with a Hegel H390 with a Zen streamer, off a Nucleus, Tidal + Roon) I'll be pretty happy.
Best,
-Paul