Ah, those darn connectors. Seems there is no perfect solution. Gold and Rhodium don't oxidize, but they are not very good conductors. I had an silver plated AQ rca plug that literally turned black. That can't be good.
Here is another fact to drive ones OCD nuts. Just read how tin plated conductors react with gold. So that is another often ignored no-no.
How about low mass copper to copper treated with ProGold?
In the end, it will be a compromise like most things in life.