@fleschler, you and I have similar experiences. I had an uncle into hifi in the 60s and 70s that caught my attention. He had a Dual turntable and a Pioneer receiver. Then I got myself a Kenwood receiver in the mid 70s just before my sophomore year. I bought more upscale Kenwood gear once graduating college but my hifi experience began when I went to a co worker's house in 1988 and heard his highly modified Quad ESLs driven by a Quicksilver Amp, modified ARC SP-8 preamp and a Sota Star with the ET-II tonearm on a Billybags stand. It was the most magical musical moment of my life. Since then I have always had an ARC tube preamp but I shied away from tube amps. First, having two little boys back then I was afraid for their lives and now that they are grown and gone I often think of getting some tube amps if not for the recurring costs. Any tube amp with output greater than 100 W/ch gets expensive to re-tube, it seems. It's not that I can't afford it. It's my mid-western upbringing I would say, because no one else I grew up with would ever spend a fortune on stereo gear like I have done. That night alone with Suzanne Vega and those Quad ESL's infected me badly.
You should post some pics of your system. Would love to see it. I've gone from Planars through the 90s to Thiels to Wilson speakers. I built a dedicated room in the early 90s for the Planars but then moved from that house. That was the best sound I had until now with the Wilsons. I had double walls, sound treatment in the corners and dedicated power. I did the ceiling in 1/2" drywall with thick, rough paint for diffusion. Now I have that sound with the addition of much more powerful and clear bass.