I get edge diffraction, but my speakers have 1/2" rounds on the edges and I defy anyone to tell me they can hear where the speaker is.
If a box is unavoidable, it should definitely have the largest radius edges possible, and ideally the curvature should go all the way to the driver frame - like the concrete speakers I had once. Think those were made in some Scandinavian country - wish I could remember the name. Someone on A-gon probably knows this company. But I wasn’t referring to edge-diffraction (that’s a whole separate issue), I was talking of flat front baffle reflecting surface area (initial reflections allow acoustical localization).
I’ve heard many other speakers that do a great job of disappearing as well, some with very narrow (Vandersteen)...
Yes, to maximize ’disappearance’, surface area perpendicular to the listener should be minimized - like you said... narrow baffle. My GoldenEar Tritons are an example of this, also most KEF and many others including the Anthony Gallo Strada’s as an extreme example and the tweeter pods on most B&W - for that matter we all know what the B&W Nautilus looks like (all the same philosophy).
Both of my above statements are witnessed in the KEF Blades and B&W Nautilus (extremely rounded and narrow-as-possible front baffles) - I count these as great designs (judged soly by their visual aspects).You can look at either of these and say, "Those are likely to disappear in a room" because of how they are shaped. Now, there are other factors that can draw attention to a speaker, like resonances, drivers sounding forward or unnaturally bright - but at least these designs have a shape that will allow greatness.
and some with broad baffles (SF Amati Heritage). I’ve never felt this was an attribute of baffles which could not be dealt with.
Yes, your correct in the statement, "...which could not be dealt with." Notice what SF have done to "deal with it"; front baffle narrow as the drivers will allow (does this sound familiar?), entire front baffle surface covered in (expensive) absorptive material, the front-baffle is also curved and the cabinet sidewalls are curved and form a triangular profile. I said in previous post of this thread, "...throw $ at it", and Sonus Faber exemplifies this method.
Also note that controlling reflections in a room can cover-up speaker localization too - I put that in the category of "throw $ at it".