I am not up on all the latest in home audio equipment to even begin to spend $200K, and it would definitely take a good review of the space, understand what potential acoustic issues there are, etc.
However, before throwing out the baby with the bath water, maybe we need to change the water first? One comment on the tubes, I am not an expert on them, but I thought the tubes in pre-amps or pre-amp sections could last 10 years? That does not seem like much of a hassle if you like the sound.
Just a quick perusal. You only have a single left and right balanced output, which I assume is going to the amplifier? What are you running to the sub? One of the unbalanced outputs? Those are not the quietest outputs, but not the worst.
- The amplifier gain (Stereophile) is high and you can't control it
- The noise on unbalanced outputs of the preamp is high, but looks like about 90db on the balanced. Not solid state, but not awful
- The output level of the preamp is high (and looks like that may be where the SNR is done)
- You probably have a ground loop to your sub. Isolation transformer to power your sub, audio isolation transformer to isolate the single ended connection if that is what you have
- With the amp gain so high, you need to gain up your sub to match, making the buzz/noise worse.
Your amp is MOSFET output, so it won't behave like a regular tube amplifier with output transformers and tube amp output resistance. I think that is what that Sunfire was trying to emulate. Maybe its the distortion of the tube preamp you like, maybe the tube section of the amp, maybe the two together, or maybe something completely different. I think I would start with a new SS pre-amp with lots of balanced outputs including one for the subs/mono and preferably one that lets you set the relative outputs. With your budget, I am sure you could get a loner. I would start with something with really low distortion and noise floor. Maybe you will like it, but at least it will give you a baseline.