Viber 6's comment, "If I were a sitting giraffe with my head way over people, then the 2nd row might be nice." That is a great way of articulating my previous comment about achieving a "sight line" to every instrument in an orchestra. From that vantage point the listener [or microphone] can perceive all three dimensions of a large group of musicians : width, depth and height. Sitting directly in front of such a large group of 100 or so instrumentalists does not provide the important element of depth. I cannot dispute the choice of those who choose to do so because that choice is legitimate, just not complete. Any seat in any hall may be to a listener's liking but most likely not to every one's taste. It reminds me of a friend who was the manager of a large motorcycle dealership. One day, as I looked over the huge sales floor filled with hundreds of motorcycles, I asked how they expected to sell so many different styles and types. His response was, "There's an ass out there for EVERY seat" ! I guess the same could be said for the seats in any concert hall ?
A music reviewer was once a guest at one of our audio listening sessions and made an interesting comment. He suggested that it would be a good idea for orchestral recordings to list the "perspective" in which they were recorded. i.e. -- from the perspective of the conductor, a musician within the group, a listener nearby in the hall or one in the balcony. We all can identify recordings that emulate those "perspectives", can't we ? Of course it was a suggestion that went nowhere because of the complexity involved but was interesting nontheless.
It is no surprise to learn of such varied tastes in listening habits any more that the differences we see in the viewing of "art objects" or the enjoyment of culinary creations. As an old friend used to say, "That's why they make chocolate AND vanilla" !