This is a really difficult situation. The equipment you are considering is very detailed. And because of that, system matching is more difficult than average. On top of it all, to do this right, you pretty much have to listen to anything you buy. At this level, even though the components are considered "better", what makes them better also makes system matching much more difficult. I know this may sound odd, but if you were looking at less "high end" gear, it would be much easier to recommend something. I have a lot of experience system building and looking at all the info you've provided, I couldn't even begin to make a responsible recommendation. And I say this even though I've owned at least 2 of the components you list. If you could narrow down your choices by doing some listening, it would be much easier to recommend something.
One thing I can tell you for sure, is that if you are going by reviews, professional or otherwise, the components you read about won't sound the same when you actually get to listen to them. Sometimes they sound close to what the reviewers say, but sometimes they sound completely different. Its a very risky way to shop.