Nowhere to hear speakers and amps anymore!

I hear you, @ervikingo!  But I also understand we aren’t living in a 1970’s economy. The internet changed everything and provided endless means to find the best price, making those who stock product in a store look like they might have missed the train. But I’ll tell you that when you encounter someone who REALLY listens to what you need and finds the right solution for the right price, that’s a deal whether it’s done in person, internet or on a forum like this one. I had such experience with a dealer here (I’m not sure I can mention the name, but you can search the respondents to my original question to find him). He listened to what I was saying; had experience with my current amp and with others in its class and knew EXACLY what I needed. Then he cut me a great deal for a demo product with a handsome exchange. I’ve never met this fellow, but he owns a store in NJ and my hat is off to him for knowing his business, internet or not. 

@aldermine You are correct.  I bought a pre-amp from one of the advertisers here and on AudioMart.  We had various phone calls about my system and what I was looking for.  I was in the middle of an out of state family trip and our calls were after hours to accomodate my schedule.

The exchange of information gave me a sense of confidence and I bought the pre over the phone.  It came with a note to call him when i received and was ready to install it, which I did.  It was a great experience and a fantastic purchase.

@aldermine You are spot on with the manufacturer supported "listening hubs" throughout the US.  I have often thought that would be the solution to the paucity of dealers.  The reason it won't happen is it would likely kill off the remaining dealer network. This industry is in need of disruption.

@skinzy Thats for sure; disruption is long overdue in this space. 

Consumers have voted with their money; very accurate Chinese counterfeits at aliexpress for a fraction of the price including many popular cable brands, buying out of state from small mail order dealers to avoid local sales tax, plenty of great gear on the used market with a lot more to come at the next recession, many great kit and DIY options and the recent trend towards high value factory direct with little or no dealer mark up (Schiit, PS Audio). I also believe this relatively small market can’t possibly support all the brands and models available now. Many will fold in the upcoming recession and there goes your warranty, used value and repair options.