I use one-piece BFA style banana plugs (not really banana plug but fit into the same female connection). They fit tight, stay tight, and are one piece. Tranditional banana plugs are a challenge because they have to be either gold coated steel (try a magnet on the cheaper ones) or they are solft and can loosen up. They are also multiple pieces and I've had them pull apart on my.
Spades, in addition to what has been said, can sometimes be pulled sideways into a short.
BFA rules.
Jerry